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Speaker | Writer | Author
www.FruitOfMySpirit.com
about
Deanna Nowadnick
Before my father died, he reminded me that Mom had asked me to write a book. At the time the boys were in college, and the notion of writing was unfathomable. Writers write books. By the time my boys were adults, I’d run out of excuses. I was also at that age when I could pause and reflect.
Fruit of My Spirit: Reframing Life in God’s Grace was my first publishing endeavor. My second was Signs in Life: Finding Direction in Our Travels with God. Both are collections of stories that tell of God’s love and faithfulness. Both tell of His remarkable grace and mercy.
When not writing, I serve as the Client Service Coordinator for The Planner’s Edge, an investment advisory firm in Washington state. I’m active in my church, serving on the Leadership Team and gathering with a wonderful group of ladies to study and giggle over lattes and chocolate. On my desk is a rock with the words “Choose Joy!” etched in it. It’s my inspiration for each day. As an author, it is my hope that my own words might share that joy we find together as children of God.
With Him, it can be so.

The Purple Couch with Karen and Danielle
Real Women~Real Stuff~Real Life Real-life is not Pinterest perfect. Real-life is not a perfectly cropped Instagram post. Real-life gets messy, takes unexpected turns where stuff happens. Let's get together and have real conversations about the real stuff on the Purple...
The Purple Couch with Karen and Danielle
Real Women~Real Stuff~Real Life Real-life is not Pinterest perfect. Real-life is not a perfectly cropped Instagram post. Real-life gets messy, takes unexpected turns where stuff happens. Let's get together and have real conversations about the real stuff on the Purple...
When Physical Challenges Overtake You
In September I had the joy of sharing in a special Facebook live filming of “Fave at 5: Conversations onthe Purple Couch.” With me was our very own Karen Rae who talked openly about health challengesearlier in her life. Karen talked about physical limitations that for...
You’re Where You Need To Be
Doing Life Together: A Message for My 21-Year Old Self #1 You’re Where You Need to Be Have you ever wanted to have a little chat with your 21-year old self? Any life lessons you’d share? I turned 21 the summer before my senior year at Pacific Lutheran University, the...
The Purple Couch with Karen and Danielle
Real Women~Real Stuff~Real Life Real-life is not Pinterest perfect. Real-life is not a perfectly cropped Instagram post. Real-life gets messy, takes unexpected turns where stuff happens. Let's get together and have real conversations about the real stuff on the Purple...
Doing Life Together: Got game?
I love stories, all our stories. Our wisdom and experience give life a depth and a richness of color that far exceeds the beauty of fall foliage. Through our stories, we share seeds of love, joy, peace, and hope, seeds that bear much fruit, seeds that will become a...
Doing Life Together: The Most Wonderful Moments of Joy
We recently watched a video tape. Yep, one of those magnetic storage devices taking up an exorbitant amount of space in the hall closet. It was a 28-year old collection of scenes from our life as a young family. What captured my heart was a clip of our two boys...
Doing Life Together: When It’s Time to Forgive – Ourselves
Recently I was a guest on Cathy Cooper’s KKNW radio show, Loss and Found. We talked about how the loss of my mother helped me find my relationship with Dad. It was an honest conversation that became an apology for a lifetime of misunderstandings and mistakes,...
Doing Life Together: Do Life and Pain Have to Be Synonymous?
I am reading Charles Swindoll’s book, Esther: A Women of Strength & Dignity. He opens Chapter Four with the sentence: Life and pain are synonymous. I closed the book. I hate pain. I do everything I can to avoid it, to relieve it, to make sure it doesn’t return....
Doing Life Together: Why Our Unscripted Moments Are Often Best
We had an earthquake this summer. Riding into the parking lot of my favorite coffee place later that morning, a news reporter stopped me and asked to talk about my experience. I looked back and forth between the reporter and his camera person and blurted out, “Guys!...
Say It with Flowers!
Last week I got a bouquet of roses from my husband, Kurt who was heading back to work after a short medical leave. The flowers didn't fare well, drooping after only a day. I refused to give up on them. And guess what? Two days later I walked into my office to see four...
So How Do We Plant Seeds of Love, Joy, Peace and Hope?
I'm often asked for practical ways in which to "walk the W.O.L.K.," ways in which to share words and deeds of loving kindness. HOW DO WE PLANT SEEDS OF LOVE, JOY, PEACE and HOPE? We are surrounded by a mistaken belief that the really important stuff goes "viral." Not...
My Two-Year Old Grandson and an Evening with Alexa
I love my two-year old grandsons. Not long ago I was getting preparing to read Enzo a bedtime story. He shrugged off suggestion after suggestion. No Cat in the Hat. No Digger Dozer Dumper. Finally I realized, he was asking for Alexa. ALEXA, REALLY? "Grandma's here to...
Ordinary Moments of Extraordinary Loving Kindness
Last week while riding my trike (yep, a trike), I looked down to see a heart in the pavement. Three water caps were surrounded by sealant in the shape of a heart. I'd passed them countless times, but not until I altered my course and came from the opposite direction...
Telling Our Stories – Part 3
Those Divine Connections Growing up, my son Kevin spent a lot of time with his best friend Kent. Kent was so much a part of our family that I would frequently call my son Kent. Each time he would reply, “Mom, I’m not Kent.” And I would reply, “I know...
Telling Our Stories – Part 2
“But I’ll never write a book…!” When I speak about writing, I’m often approached by someone, eyes downcast, voice barely above a whisper, who says, “I have stories to tell, but I could never write a book…” Others never come forward, but I’ve learned to...
Telling Our Stories – Part 1
Sharing the Laughter and the MemoriesI love gatherings with family and friends. Laughter that fills the room. Memories retold again and again. New faces, new loves, new challenges, new hopes and dreams. You, too?When we get together, our family shares...
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