I Used To Be A Staff Member

I used to be a staff member. To move the organization forward, we tried to be in agreement. Or at least, I wanted to be ‘on the same page.’

Harmony Or Not?

Our son was in college and performing in choirs. I heard all the voices blend together so beautifully and thought, with pain in my heart, “Why can’t my co-workers sing together like this choir?” As if from God, I heard, “It’s my Song. I’m writing the Song.”

At a Christmas concert, a well-liked Master’s degree student wrote an orchestra piece. In the middle of this beautiful Christmas hymn was discordant music. After the concert, I told our son, “I didn’t like the Christmas hymn with the discordant music.” Wisely, our son reminded me, “Mama, that’s how Christmas feels sometimes.”

I’ve learned to accept the harmony and discordant music of Life. Of course, I prefer times of harmony! I work to understand and move through discordant times.

Perfect

I often say the word, ‘Perfect’. I used to try and be perfect because I thought this was what God expected me to be. Now I understand better than ever that I am imperfect and God is more interested in how I am doing from moment to moment. I accept the joy and the challenge of each present moment as ‘Perfect’.

Love’s Song

Even though I understand that somehow God is writing a Universal Song, I now hear all of us as the individual notes and instruments and voices. We are each writing this Song with Love as our Conductor. The more we can live in harmony with ourselves and each other, the better off we will all be. The more quickly we can learn from and move through discordant times, the better off we will all be.

We can choose whether or not we want life-giving emotions to dwell in our bodies and minds. If we are willing to live with life-draining emotions, we will exist rather than thrive.

Sally Is Okay, Now!

My client whom I will call Sally was suffering in many areas of her life. She tried not to cry during an online network meeting. Sally heard my calm voice and healing persona and she booked a Discovery Call before the network meeting was over. Sally came for her first session within days. Sally went through the 12-session The Soul Power Experience program. By the last session, Sally was crying because she received so much benefit and care. Sally said she would miss our session time together so we scheduled an intuitive session for the next month. At this session, when I asked her how the various issues in her life were going, she said that everything is okay. We used the technique of PSYCH-K to program important goals and Sally is happily on her way to a thriving life. Sally has a new sense of strength and peace of mind. She is learning from and moving through the discordant experiences of her life.

Emotions Are Experiences In Motion

Life, in all of its glory and suffering, is meant to be experienced. Emotions help us experience life. We learn and grow emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, socially, etc. We experience emotions in seconds of time. Life becomes more difficult when emotions get stuck in our memory and our body. When we can see emotions as experiences in motion, we can create a daily practice of making sure we experience our emotions and then let them go and move forward.

Let Dani be your guide in reframing and releasing life-draining emotions and empowering life-giving emotions that will help you thrive.

Sing a New Song!

Namaste – the Divine in Me Celebrates the Divine in You!

I Love You!

~Dani

Let Dani Be Your Guide to Emotionally Singing A New Song!

Dani offers a free 20 minute The Emotion Code session, which helps to remove an inherited or current emotion. Activate Your Soul Power!  Live Your Infinite Greatness!  Be Your Own Hero!  Book a FREE Breakthrough phone call! Find free resources!  Go to www.danigreen.today.

Dani Green

Dani Green is the Creator of The Soul Power Experience using motivational speaking, education and hypnotherapy. Dani also helps clients reduce stress, smoking cessation and weight release. As an Ordained Minister, Dani writes and officiates Weddings and Funerals. Dani and her husband, Kevin have three adult children and have hosted 15 international students.

Freedom From Suffering?

Years ago, I was driving on Westlake Avenue in Seattle and praying, “Okay, God! What is the point of The Soul Power Experience? Why am I writing it? What is the benefit?”

I immediately sensed, ‘Freedom’!

“Wow, freedom from what?”, I replied.

Then I sensed, ‘Suffering’.

Naturally, I replied, “Really? Can you give me something a little easier?”

The reply was sure, ‘Freedom from Suffering’!

When I think of suffering, I think of those who are suffering now and have suffered so much more than I have. What do I have to say that could bring Freedom from Suffering to them and the world? I understand suffering comes in many forms-physical, emotional, spiritual, social, mental, financial, etc.

the Story we tell ourselves before, during, and after times of suffering can make a lot of difference.

The Benefit of Suffering

The benefit of suffering is it can put our life in perspective. Suffering can show us what is more important. Suffering can show us we are stronger than we knew. Suffering makes room for others to care for us and to show us how much we are loved. But suffering is so hard!

My Spirit Animal is The Bear

Now that my heart and mind are open to Truth from God and the Universe, in the spring of 2017, I was shopping at the Seattle Waterfront and found a necklace that represented My Spirit Animal based on my birth month. My Spirit Animal is the Bear. My children call me Mama Bear as I protect them and always side with the suffering.

This weekend, I was in the same room as my daughters argued. The discussion left one of my daughters in the middle of the room crying. They are suffering. My heart is suffering, too. They are on their own Path, individually and relationally. I hope they will work it out. It is up to them.

Freedom From The Suffering of Suffering

I am working to find freedom from the suffering of witnessing suffering. I am glad I was there with my daughters. I understand the issue better having witnessed the fallout. I felt both of their suffering. And now I must move on and not suffer anymore over their issue. Suffering happens. Freedom from the suffering of suffering is not being pulled down and pulled away from others or from life.

The Second Arrow

The parable of the second arrow is a well-known Buddhist story about dealing with suffering more skillfully. It is said the Buddha once asked a student, ‘If a person is struck by an arrow, is it painful? If the person is struck by a second arrow, is it even more painful?’ He then went on to explain, ‘In life, we can’t always control the first arrow. However, the second arrow is our reaction to the first. This second arrow is optional.’

There Is Always a Solution

There is a solution to every problem and an answer to every question. We might need to wait patiently as we look for solutions and answers. Or sometimes Truth comes quickly. Either way, we are okay since everything belongs and is for our Highest Good.

Lisa Cleaned Her Apartment For 45 Minutes

My client, I will call Lisa came to me because her life was at a standstill. She was living with such a deep sense of grief that she could barely function. Lisa managed to go to work and buy groceries and go for an occasional walk. She is very spiritual and artistically visual and can see and sense goodness. Lisa couldn’t manage to load the dishwasher or clean her apartment. Using a motivational technique we discussed in session, Lisa cleaned her apartment for 45 minutes straight! She is learning from and moving through suffering by letting go and not experiencing the suffering of suffering over and over again.

We initially experience suffering in a matter of minutes or hours. We re-experience this suffering when we replay it in our minds. Our inner Survival Brain repeats these experiences to help us avoid them in the future. The rest of our body feels the emotions again and again. When we learn something new about our past experiences, our Survival Brain will stop this repetitive thinking. The techniques of hypnotherapy help to replace our suffering Story with something more True and Empowering.

Reframe and Learn From Any Life Experience

Book a free Discovery Call with Dani and find out how you can reframe and learn from any life experience. Carrying emotional pain and suffering is optional.

Who will you be and how will your life be different six months from now?

Imagine…

Namaste – the Divine in Me Celebrates the Divine in You!

I Love You!

~Dani

Let Dani Be Your Guide to Finding Freedom From The Suffering of Suffering

Dani offers a free 20 minute The Emotion Code session, which helps to remove an inherited or current emotion. Activate Your Soul Power!  Live Your Infinite Greatness!  Be Your Own Hero!  Book a FREE Breakthrough phone call! Find free resources!  Go to www.danigreen.today.

Dani Green

Dani Green is the Creator of The Soul Power Experience using motivational speaking, education and hypnotherapy. Dani also helps clients reduce stress, smoking cessation and weight release. As an Ordained Minister, Dani writes and officiates Weddings and Funerals. Dani and her husband, Kevin have three adult children and have hosted 15 international students.

Believing God Is In Control

Believing God is in control is helpful because “by God,” at least someone is in control. When we lack self-control. When our circumstances are beyond our control. When the world seems out of control, then at least, we can believe that God is in control. Songs and poems have been written, which bring solace to many.

Believing God is in control is easy when life goes our way. When positive things happen, we feel like God orchestrated the event just for us.

However, the question is often turned around when we are suffering. We ask, “Really, God? Are you in control? How could you allow this to happen? Who are you?” In our suffering, we might blame God. We begin to feel separate from God. As a result, we feel even more weakened by our circumstances. We feel even more sad, desperate, and lonely. To think God has forsaken us is not fair to God or us.

Believing God Is Not In Control

We wonder if God is in control when we experience great suffering. We all know what great suffering is. We have experienced suffering. Great suffering has occurred in our family or with our friends. We read about suffering. We see suffering in the world. It is hard to believe God is in control. We can become angry with God for time or a lifetime.

‘God is in control’ does not make sense to the couple who lost their baby to SIDs. ‘God is in control’ does not make sense to those locked in circumstances of manipulation and violence. ‘God is in control’ does not make sense to the families, communities, and countries ravished by pandemics.

When ‘God is in control’ does not make sense, who do we blame but God? We blame God and live with anger, regret, confusion, sadness, loneliness, and struggle. And then, because of the Story we tell ourselves, we lose emotional connection to God. We lose emotional connection to the very source of help in time of need.

God is within the very cells of our body. God is within our very nature. We are connected to God by our Eternal Soul, always and forever. And yet, the Story we tell ourselves is we are forsaken, so we do not feel connected to God. We feel separate from God. However, God is never separate from us. God is with us all, always and forever.

Who Is In Control?

Am I in control? Self-control is often the most challenging part of being human. I break many of the rules I make for myself. I have self-control, sometimes. I feel stronger when I have self-control. Positive emotional energy is added to my life. I feel weakened when I do not practice self-control. I feel emotional withdrawal.

The times we have self-control, we feel strong. When self-control is beyond our grasp, we feel weakened. When we think we cannot control our circumstances, it might help us to believe God does. If we believe that God is in control and we are not in control of ourselves or our circumstances, we feel lost in our momentary experiences.

Who Is To Blame?

Saying ‘God is in control’ can point the finger of blame at God for what is being created by our choices or the choices of others. The greed of others could cause hunger in the world. Storms could be caused by climate change. Violence could be caused by the Story we tell ourselves about others and by being unwilling to look at how we feel about ourselves.

To be honest, I don’t live my life as well as I want to. I don’t love myself or my family, or my community as much as I want to. However, I take responsibility for the future I’m creating. I am sure God will use who I am and what I do for my Highest Good, and that is enough for me to be happy with myself, happy with my ability to love my family, and my community, and the world.

We Don’t Need to Defend God

Religion teaches us to defend religion and, as a consequence, to defend God. God is more than all of our thoughts. When we try to defend God, we live feeling offended. Feeling offended creates walls and separates us. Feeling separated from others and feeling the weight of defending God creates an incongruent worldview, an untrue Story.

Raising the question, ‘Is God in control?’ may challenge your thinking. The risk I am taking in putting these words in print is in your defense of God; you might mistrust me and dismiss me. If you do, I will no longer be your teacher. We might no longer be friends, which is sad for both of us.

My intention in raising this question is to cry with those for whom the statement, ‘God is in control’ left them weeping and feeling forsaken.

When faith is outside of ourselves, we have a harder time recognizing faith is within us. We blame Satan and trust God as though both forces are outside ourselves. We are stuck somewhere in the middle depending on the day, the situation, our feelings, our failures, and successes. Believing someone outside of ourselves is in control might make us feel like a puppet and someone else is controlling the strings.

God joins us in how we feel in every present moment. God cries with and for the suffering. We can find freedom from suffering by changing the Story we tell ourselves. We can find freedom from suffering when we understand God is with us at a cellular level. Sometimes freedom from suffering is just the strength to endure with moments of peace and love to sustain us.

In Who Can We Believe?

We can believe in Love. We can believe in ourselves. And we can believe God is with us. It is that simple! We can also believe in the goodness of others. Understandably, it is hard to trust others when they have hurt us, individually and as a human family. We can trust they, just like us, will learn from their mistakes and that God has the power to turn even horrendous circumstances into the Highest Good for all.

What Is Self-Sovereignty?

To be sovereign is to have supreme and independent power or authority. The concept of self-sovereignty used to scare me. The word brought too much personal responsibility. I used to think that only God was sovereign. 

We Co-Create Our Life

One day I understood since I am created in the Image of God, and God is the Creator, then I am a Creator, too! I co-create my life with God! Co-creating my life with God instantly gave me a sense of self-empowerment and personal responsibility.

We Are All In Control

We are all in control, God and all of us together. When we believe God is Good and God is Love, we can believe in the miracle of everything being transformed to create our Highest Good in every situation. We are evolving toward Love in each lifetime and between lives, and that’s the Whole Point.

What Is The Solution?

The solution to who is in control is knowing that God is with us in every present moment. Period. We have all Light, Love, Power, and Wisdom available to us every second.

During our “I AM” session, a client spoke the following Inner Mantra, “I am strong, and I am stronger than I think I am.” I was so deeply touched by this Truth for two reasons. First, she used “I Am” three times in one mantra, wow! Second, I could discern she connected fully to the Power that is within her. It is this strength that gets us through difficult circumstances.

My Path, Your Path, and Our Paths

One concept I help my clients understand is each person is on their own Path. Each Path contains our past, present, and future beliefs, behaviors, and experiences. Sometimes paths cross, and sometimes people go their own way. Allowing others to be on their own Path helps us see their consequences of their actions.

Is God In Control? You Decide.

If it helps you to believe God is in control, believe it. If believing God is in control causes you to blame God and thus, feel separate from God, then this belief is not helping you. Understanding I co-create my life with God gives me a sense of responsibility to live my life well for the benefit of me, my family, the human family, our animal family, and the planet.

Can God use everything for our Highest Good? Yes, I believe so. We have an Infinite number of possibilities in front of us today. I trust God will make the best use of them all.

In What Can We Believe?

We can believe God is with us. We can believe God empowers us. Just as Infinite as the galaxies, Infinite are our thoughts, choices, and actions. God makes use of everything for our Highest Good.

We have faith in Love. We can trust that Love is for us all, always. Our Soul speaks only of Love For All. We are all One, created out of the same material energy. We rejoice and mourn together, God with us.

God is self-sovereign. I am self-sovereign. You are self-sovereign. We are all sovereign, and our choices matter. Our choices create the future! What future are we creating for ourselves, our communities, and the world?

I am Enough. You are Enough. And so is God.

Dani Green

Dani Green is the Creator of The Soul Power Experience using motivational speaking, education and hypnotherapy. Dani also helps clients reduce stress, smoking cessation and weight release. As an Ordained Minister, Dani writes and officiates Weddings and Funerals. Dani and her husband, Kevin have three adult children and have hosted 15 international students.

Maybe It’s Just Me

Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t do anything that isn’t doable.

Doable can be defined as achievable and possible. Yep, that’s me! It may not be easy, but it still has to be doable. I hired a business coach once, and when I explained I can only do what is doable, she said, “Well, we’ll see if we can change that.” She has not changed me yet.

I am sorry if you have ever tried to coach me or if I have purchased a product line from you; I am a wayward student. I can maintain a change for about a week. If it begins not to work, I try for another week. At the three-week mark, I give up and go back to doing my best with what is doable.

Sustaining a Challenging Change

We can sustain a challenging change for a while. Some people have a really strong psyche that can maintain a challenging lifestyle day after day after day and thrive.

We can consider our natural psyche on a bell curve continuum of normal. Some of us are super strong, and some of us are weaker, and as a bell curve would have it, most of us are somewhere in the middle. Those who are strong must sometimes slow down. Those of us who are weaker are empowered to keep going because we must. Those of us in the middle continue to do the best we can.

I have heard of teachers who have the saying, “I can do hard things,” posted in their classrooms to encourage students. I have adopted this mantra, and so far, in my shower, I can turn down the hot water to cold and stand there for a few seconds! And I go to bed without socks to prove that I can endure not-yet-warm air on my toes! (I know, first-world problems!) To my credit, I have taken up running again now that the weather is nice (still a doable issue). I do well to manage five business interests and volunteer weekly. I provide help to my children and grandchildren and sometimes help a friend. I am doing okay.

Neuroplasticity Helps Us Mature

Neuroplasticity proves the brain can change, grow, and become stronger. We can continue to mature from the cradle to the grave. The bottom line is intention and resolve. If we want to change, we will. We can create the life we want to live.

Instantly Changing Your Story Makes Life More Doable

One tool in making life instantly more doable is to change the Story we tell ourselves. Changing the Story, we tell ourselves, positively changes our brain chemicals, improves our immune system, and helps us feel emotionally lighter and develop a stronger psyche. These positive changes happen when the Story we discover is more empowering and truer than what we used to believe.

Using active meditation, I guide clients to move through and forward from the negative stories that impact their lives. If a story from the past impacts your present re-actions, it is a present issue.

Who will you be when you rewrite your past, present, and future Story? What Inner Mantra is your Soul waiting to tell you? Imagine…

Doable and Self-Acceptance

Learning to love ‘what is,’ learning to love ourselves, learning to accept our strengths and weaknesses makes doable okay. We spike into higher-level thinking and action when inspired to do so.

I hope you become comfortable with living a doable lifestyle. Accept yourself even more deeply. Meditate on removing any Story that weakens you. Let me know if I can be of assistance.

Resolve

Even though my psyche prefers things to be doable, I have one mantra that is absolutely true for me. My one-word mantra is ‘Resolve.’ I know I will never give up on my goals and dreams to live my best life and to contribute to the best lives of others.

One & Done Weight Release

I am writing a weight release program that is simply the most doable program I can imagine. It is working for me, so I know it will work for anyone on the planet. The program is doable because we focus on present moment changes in emotional re-action, beliefs, behaviors using self-empowerment, hypnotherapy/active meditation, a simple body anchor, and a mantra of ONE & D.O.N.E. Book a call to see if this program is a good fit for your psyche and lifestyle!

Namaste – the Divine in Me Celebrates the Divine in You!

I Love You!

~Dani

Let Dani Be Your Guide to Creating a Doable Life of Self-Acceptance and Change!

Dani offers a free 20 minute The Emotion Code session, which helps to remove an inherited or current emotion. Activate Your Soul Power!  Live Your Infinite Greatness!  Be Your Own Hero!  Book a FREE Breakthrough phone call! Find free resources and learn about The Soul Power Experience!  Go to http://www.danigreen.today.

Dani Green

Dani Green is the Creator of The Soul Power Experience using motivational speaking, education and hypnotherapy. Dani also helps clients reduce stress, smoking cessation and weight release. As an Ordained Minister, Dani writes and officiates Weddings and Funerals. Dani and her husband, Kevin have three adult children and have hosted 15 international students.

I Felt Devastated

Once upon a time, I was very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very tired. I felt devastated.

On Mount Saint Helens

Our family took a trip to Mount St. Helens. The devastation of the 1980 eruption was still visible. The ash-filled dirt still showed signs of devastation. I kept saying to my loved ones, “Look at the devastation.” I felt understood.

Then I noticed little purple wildflowers growing in the forsaken dirt. I instantly knew I would be okay. The flowers called to me that day to remind me healing will come.

In My Kitchen

In my kitchen, to the left of the window over the sink, I have a small plaque with a picture of a purple wildflower which says, “If God is for us who can ever be against us.” (Romans 8:31)

God Is Love Energy

God is Love. Love is God. I no longer need to know anything more about God.

God Is For Us All

God has been personified, blamed, and praised. Religion tells us many stories.

Knowing God is always for us is perhaps, the most important Story. See God/Love flowing toward you and filling each cell of your body.​

Namaste – the Divine in Me Celebrates the Divine in You!

I Love You!

~Dani

Let Dani Be Your Guide to Finding Your Purple Flowers of Renewal!

Dani offers a free 20 minute The Emotion Code session, which helps to remove an inherited or current emotion. Activate Your Soul Power!  Live Your Infinite Greatness!  Be Your Own Hero!  Book a FREE Breakthrough phone call! Find free resources and learn about The Soul Power Experience!  Go to http://www.danigreen.today.

Dani Green

Dani Green is the Creator of The Soul Power Experience using motivational speaking, education and hypnotherapy. Dani also helps clients reduce stress, smoking cessation and weight release. As an Ordained Minister, Dani writes and officiates Weddings and Funerals. Dani and her husband, Kevin have three adult children and have hosted 15 international students.