Closet full of clothes and nothing to wear!

You’re up having a cup of coffee and you’re thinking about your day and where you’re going to go…

Ok, meeting your girlfriends for lunch and how fun that will be? I think I want to wear my red dress and that will go with my cute new flats.

You go to your closet. Ugh..the red dress is dirty. So you say to yourself in your mind, why isn’t it easy to grab something I feel good in? I have so many things to choose from. You start digging through things to see if there is something you forgot about. That one’s too short, this one’s too tight…that fabric is scratchy on my skin. I know I must have something that will look good with my new shoes!! So you decide on a good old standby you usually wear.

I know that’s why I’m going shopping… I really just need to get some new things!

IS THAT YOU? I totally get it!

Today with all the things that have changed this year, it’s a good time to start fresh and adjust your wardrobe to your lifestyle today. Maybe you are working from home and Zoom is your new office. When you get dressed every day, you can feel good about how you look and the energy you emit by feeling good about you. It really starts in your closet, doesn’t it?

Maybe it’s time to let go of the items in your closet you aren’t wearing anyway. It’s time, to be honest with yourself about why you aren’t wearing most of the things in your closet. It doesn’t fit right or doesn’t go with anything else you have. You bought it because it was on sale or so cute you sure you’d wear it but then when you wore it it wasn’t that comfortable or no one even noticed.
Some women hate to shop because they’ve put on a few pounds and are uncomfortable and you HAVE to get something else to be comfortable now. Stop waiting to lose weight and accept your body size now. You can always get something more in style later. Just relax and be who you are today.

I can help you and help you release any regret or guilt! We’ll start in a fun and easy way by easily decluttering your things a little every day so you can have a fresh start on new possibilities!

about

Patsy Sanders

​As a little girl, Patsy dreamed of being a hairstylist. She even won a scholarship to beauty college right after high school! Why? From the very beginning she had a strong belief that everyone deserves to feel confident and beautiful just the way they were made. And yet, the world constantly tells us that we are not enough!

My mission is to fight that limiting belief. That's why Patsy's focus is helping women look and feel better, by working together to create a plan for your hair, makeup, and clothing. When you have that plan that helps you capture who you really are, you're free to show off your gifts and talents to the world.

Do you have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear? You are definitely not
alone!

I’ve heard many clients say they are tired of looking in their closet and – even
though it’s full, and still don’t have much to wear.

The latest statistic is we only actually wear 25% of our clothes. So what about that
other 75%? Some of it could be a special occasion or different season but we all
have clothes we buy but end up wearing. That was me too. And that felt like such
a waste.

Don’t you just hate it when you have an event to go to and you look in your closet
and feel like you have absolutely nothing that you can wear?

You’ve put time, effort and money into that wardrobe, and it can be so
disheartening to feel like you don’t have something to wear for an
event—without going shopping—again!

I’ve discovered that women usually shop for clothes for
one of 3 reasons.

1. 1. We’re going to an event and need something new.
      There’s a wedding or party. So you run down to our favorite store. They don’t
      have the styles you like. Or there’s nothing in your size. When you find something
      close to what you want, you try it on and it doesn’t really fit right. So you go to
      another store. Maybe you find something. And then you need new shoes and
      accessories. Now this event is starting to really cost you just so you can feel good
      and in style. And you may not wear it again.
   2. It’s on sale.
      I don’t know about you, but there’s nothing like a good bargain. When I see
      something on sale, I tell myself I’ll wear it sometime. Especially casual clothes.
      Then a year later, there it is, hanging in my closet with the tags still on.
   3. Out of emotion
      You’re bored or celebrating or angry or sad, so you go shopping. I used to eat or
      go shopping. It felt great. Until the credit card bill arrived.

I used to hate how I looked because I was overweight. When I found things that
actually fit and looked decent in, it felt great, so I’d buy it. I’d wear it a few times
and if I didn’t get any compliments, it would go to back into my closet where it
would gather dust. Back then, I had been color-typed in the Seasons, and was told
I was a Winter, so back then my closet was full of black and jewel tones. I
occasionally got compliments on my hair or outfit, but never on ME. Something
wasn’t right.

I had a closet full of clothes but nothing to wear.

Then I learned something that changed everything. It was a new system called
Embracing Your Essence, that helped me finally figure out what makes me look
good so that people compliment me on ME, not my clothes or hair. I also finally
saw my closet as something worth investing in.

Clothes are one of the first things people see about you. They convey a message
about you. Even if that message is, “I don’t care.”

I loved the new system so much I became an expert in it and started sharing it
with my hairstyling clients. And their feedback was amazing. They also had
fantastic experiences when they started dressing in their essence.

As an entrepreneur, you probably spend a lot of money on your business. How
often do you think about intentionally building a wardrobe where you can be seen
for who you really are, so that your value is evident at first glance, and so people
feel magnetically attracted to you? One where you feel amazing in everything you
wear, so you don’t have to run to the store to buy an new outfit for that certain
event, and you know you have something for every occasion? Believe it or not it
IS possible to love and use everything in your closet.

But it comes down to how you FEEL in what you’re wearing. That feeling affects
your attitude, self-confidence, and how you move through life.

When you open your closet, it should be like having a party with best friends. You
should feel confident and well-dressed every time you leave your house.

The good news is you can change the old scenario. When you learn your element
with our 5 step system, it takes away the guess work and helps you know what to
buy, where to buy, and gives you the assurance that you won’t be wasting money
on an un-used 75% of your wardrobe anymore.

Discover how to dress to feel fabulous, confident, and truly yourself, a create a
closet that you can add to over time, that will give you joy every time you get to
put on your wonderful clothes.

Getting typed in your element helps you:

• Know what to keep and what to let go of.
• Emotionally let go of the things that no longer serve you
• Dress for how you want to feel and be seen.
• Only buy what works for you so you don’t keep wasting money.
• Discover if people see you or what you’re wearing first.

See transformations on my website at EmbracingYourEssence.com and in my free app.

If you would like to learn more about being typed in your essence, book a free 30-
minute Zoom appointment Book a Free Session Here.

about

Patsy Sanders

​As a little girl, Patsy dreamed of being a hairstylist. She even won a scholarship to beauty college right after high school! Why? From the very beginning she had a strong belief that everyone deserves to feel confident and beautiful just the way they were made. And yet, the world constantly tells us that we are not enough!

My mission is to fight that limiting belief. That's why Patsy's focus is helping women look and feel better, by working together to create a plan for your hair, makeup, and clothing. When you have that plan that helps you capture who you really are, you're free to show off your gifts and talents to the world.